Human brain is more sophisticated than anyone could ever imagine. I believe we have what-so-called selective memory with a mixture of a cognitive one where we remember incidents and are triggered to recall them based on some relevant subjects and objects. What's more is that the key to this memory selection is the heart. I deeply regard that the heart shall decide what will be in the brain or otherwise.

This is true when we speak of the people or matters we care more or show better interest, we tend to remember them, even up to a level of the details and traits, depending on the intensity of interest and concern an individual portray. Sadly enough, because of the flaw of human nature, we also tend to bear in mind the people or matters we dislike or I’d say hate, which also vary according to the severity of the hatred feelings we hold against them.

It is of course beautiful to see people who hold on to their memories of great time, boast about them and I see the flowers of life blossom from within them. No doubt there are painful or loathing memories that some that withered such flowers. Not wanting to let go what’s passed is past, they hold grudge as if it still means something when they reside in their grave. The worst it can be is perhaps having a mixture of good and yet bad memories on the same person.

Subjective – this is the keyword we should uphold in our life. We should have a view of more angles before coming to a conclusion on people and matters. As much as stereotype most of us we can be, let’s change so life shall bloom and not fade. Let us forget not what is beautiful and forget ful of what is not. Rest assured when you find the way to change your heart as such, it is that time you find you really rejuvenate and live.

Peace shall be with you when that time comes; and the true peace, my friend, maybe simple to be comprehend but never easy to be retain.